There is a time to say byebye to love ones,not because you dont want to see their faces or hear from them again but to move on to a greater thing.I have received quite a lot of mails and e-cards from my friends and otherwise out there and i must say i appreciate them all.I ve made up my mind to leave my past life and begin afresh with another focuss,knowing that iam specially created by God and should not shortchange myself bcos of societal pressure.The lady i met the other day at the eatery introduced me to a better life through christ and i have dedicated my life to him and with his grace,all my heart desire will be fulfilled. Once again,a big thank you to all and i wish you all the very best in your endeavours.

He was in my office yesterday evening,looking downcasted as if the world is falling on him.I welcome him into my office but as soon as the door was shut,i told him he should keep off me and give me space to clear my head before listening to any story.He was adamant and refused to leave without making me understand some things which he tried to tell me the other day when i met his wife in his house but that i did not allowed hin to clear any misgiving i had.He started his story by telling me how they met through his friend from school and before he knows it,they were married nine months after and they were so much in love and how her parent assisted them and were instrumental to his starting his own business and with their contact,he was able to make a headway and he will forever be grateful to them but on their own side,the issue of infertility has been a problem and they consulted different doctors but nothing happened and after eight years and the pressure was much on both of them from his and her parent and it got to a point that his wife agreed that he should try elsewhere but he didnt want to do that but you know men will always be men and along the line,a girl got impregnated and he couldnt do anything than to accept and he got a boy from the affair and thats the boy i saw his photograph .It was tough for him to tell his wife but he did and since then,their relationship is never the same until one day she decided that she want to call the marriage off and after much pleading from various quarters even her family,he got home one day and realised that she is gone. He later got to know she relocated to the states and was surprise to received her lawyer's letter and he never contested it and decided to move on untill she surface from nowhere the last time i saw her in his house and since they are not formally divorce ,the house belong to her as well.He said he is really sorry for the embarrassment and know that time will take care of all that and that he really want to be with me!i did not know what to make of the whole story and i just said i still need the space and i will call him when i feel better and ready to discuss.

I think i need to go for a deliverance this year as all kind of things i never envisage keep happening in my life.After the last episode with my oga's wife,i deliberately refuse to have contact with him until he sort himself out with his wife and iam sure she is not going to embarrass me again.Alas,a bigger one was in stock for me-after my friend got back and with the way his parent accepted me,i took it for granted that probably all he is been saying were actually true but yesterday the wife sister saw us at a eatery in V/I and was coming towards our direction but my friend met her halfway and before i knew it,she started shouting that you this ingrate,if you think you can just use my sister and dump her-you are in for a joke and you better tell that slut with you to start running because i will embarrass her throughly and i was alarmed,i wondered whats my business with their matter.My friend just politely asked me to get a cab that he will meet at home,imagine that shame in a public place and as i was going out she increased her drama as she saw that everybody there was looking out for the offender.Yeye girl,old mama,go and look for your own husband and stop hypnotising other people husband-humiliation was an understatement and all my friend could say was respect yourself and stop embarrasing my guest.All eyes were on me as i was rushing out but luckily a good samaritan offered to drop me anywhere to get me out of the place.As i entered the car,i just started crying and telling the lady the story of my life,how can the world be so cruel to me-all i want is my own happiness and not to hurt anybody.The lady allowed me to cry and narrate all my story but just said you have to take heart,we are all passing through one frustration or the other and i should not let it weigh me down,she dropped me in my house and we exhange our cards.When i got home.i just switched off the phone and off all the light.