He was in my office yesterday evening,looking downcasted as if the world is falling on him.I welcome him into my office but as soon as the door was shut,i told him he should keep off me and give me space to clear my head before listening to any story.He was adamant and refused to leave without making me understand some things which he tried to tell me the other day when i met his wife in his house but that i did not allowed hin to clear any misgiving i had.He started his story by telling me how they met through his friend from school and before he knows it,they were married nine months after and they were so much in love and how her parent assisted them and were instrumental to his starting his own business and with their contact,he was able to make a headway and he will forever be grateful to them but on their own side,the issue of infertility has been a problem and they consulted different doctors but nothing happened and after eight years and the pressure was much on both of them from his and her parent and it got to a point that his wife agreed that he should try elsewhere but he didnt want to do that but you know men will always be men and along the line,a girl got impregnated and he couldnt do anything than to accept and he got a boy from the affair and thats the boy i saw his photograph .It was tough for him to tell his wife but he did and since then,their relationship is never the same until one day she decided that she want to call the marriage off and after much pleading from various quarters even her family,he got home one day and realised that she is gone. He later got to know she relocated to the states and was surprise to received her lawyer's letter and he never contested it and decided to move on untill she surface from nowhere the last time i saw her in his house and since they are not formally divorce ,the house belong to her as well.He said he is really sorry for the embarrassment and know that time will take care of all that and that he really want to be with me!i did not know what to make of the whole story and i just said i still need the space and i will call him when i feel better and ready to discuss.