Another reaction;

Lady, I suggest you get a life and leave other women’s men alone. If you don’t see any man that will love you for the unique person that you’re, love other people by contributing to your community one way or another with your time to make other people happy (stop being selfish for a while and think about other people’s happiness and feelings), because the more you give, the more you’ll receive in return, (rubbish in, rubbish out, period) who knows, by so doing, you’ll be found by, or you’ll find the single, unmarried “love of your life”, why do you want to steal from another woman’s pot of affection, and eat smelly and foul crumbs from other women’s table like a rejected stray dog?

Here are a lists of things I propose you do with your precious time instead of goofing around with Mr. No-Good-Losers who are out to use you and dump you for the next hot pant:

1. Since you live in Nigeria, find the closest orphanage and visit them on weekends and ask them for ways you can help around with the children there. Play with the children and help feed, cloth and read stories to them. Take some of them out with your car (I’m sure they will love that very much) and visit the library with them and read with them.

2. Visit your local church (one of integrity, not all this cockroach churches all over the place in that country) and find out from the pastors what you can do to help them around the church.

3. If you’re not the churchy kind, act as a mentor to the boys and girls in your neighborhood, you can mentor them to be better leaders of tomorrow. Take the girls out shopping, help with their homework or even give them some minor homework of your own, arrange sleepover parties, talk with them about issues and current affairs. The boys too can be mentored by you, take them out to lunch sometimes, help with their school work, etc all these with the permission of their parents of course, and please try to keep your eyes of their fathers (I know some fathers can be hunks, but be a good girl).

4. These are a few suggestions to start with, you can come up with more if you really think about it and consider…