The big oga got back yesterday night and called from the airport to know whether iam in the right frame of mind to talk to him since he is being trying to talk to me on phone and i refused to picked his calls and i just said he can go ahead if he has anything to say to me.He started blabbing on how he never expected his wife to go that far from what his sister told him and he is really upset with her but i should give him time to sort it out and she must definately apologise to me for the embarrasssment! and that i must know that if he was around she dare not do that nonsense.I just cut him short and told him to tell his wife that i do not have any business with her and as such,she should stay clear of me and if not,she is not going to find it funny as iam not that stupid to have taking it lightly with her and just dropped the call without waiting for his response.
I was suprised to see him at my door about an hour later and since i dont want the busybody around to listen to whatever we had to say,i had to allowed him in.As soon as he entered,he just held me and went on his knee that i should just forgive him and forget the whole episode and that he will make up for it.I was really embarrassed and had to tell him to just get up and talk like adult,i mean-men are just selfish and will do anything to get whatever they want.Forgive and forget indeed!with all the embarassment she put me through and you can imagine how the people on my street will be looking at me and making snide remarks.He left when he realised i wasnt ready to listen to all his cock and bull story but despite all my bravado,that man is damn too good to me and cant just be abandon anyhow-i think i care about him him more than i think i do because immediately he stepped out,i felt like calling him back and comfort him......................................shoooooooo
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As I was saying o jare before the side distractions from a couple of readers who just read and move on. Pray tell why they bother to read if they won't comment, good or bad. Bloody noisemakers is what I call folks like that, to dumb to form an opinion, to stupid to express it, to selfish to share from their self-acclaimed wisdom.
Anyway, my dear, I like how you handled this scenario. Even after a while of being friends with someone, we tend to hold them so dear, not to talk of how you must feel for your Oga. But certain situations require that we stop and do what we know to be right no matter what. It's a lifelong process. With each effort, our tools become more sharpened. I hope you can keep this firmness up.
Of all the nonsensical things editor wrote, (imagine him saying one should just learn from you and move on. Where, then, are you supposed to learn from if everyone adopted that approach. Selfish, self-righteous swine is what I call a person who learns from me but teaches me nothing, all in the name of "not-want-to-sound-judgmental". As if anyone can actually not have an opinon on an issue unless they are dullards like the other commenter who just posted to rant, he actually made sense when he said that it's not how many times you fall, but how you get up.
Sisibaby, I hope you can continue to stand firm for what you "know" is right. You may truly love your Oga and he may love you too, but unless you are ready to be second wife, there is no point breaking his home. Only a thief takes what belongs to others. And a thief who takes not because he needs that one but just for the heck of it, is a murderer. The selfish fool needs to decide on his own whether or not he wants out of his marriage and get it before trying to get with you. That's what any respectable woman should demand. Do not let anyone tell you otherwise. At the end of the day, the decision is yours to make whether or not you wish to be treated the way you're being treated now. Just imagine how the wife must feel.
I am superelated that you admitted that you felt embarrased by the reaction you got from his wife, and that you actually care that folks in your area are now going to regard you with some level of contempt. At least it shows that you still have concsience and have your head screwed right. I agree with you; you don't have any business with the wife but the husband. But given that you are the one dipping your hand into someone else's cookie jar, it's not yours to decide how she reacts. Heck! Maybe if you were in her shoes, you'ld have bathed her with acid before realizing that the Oga is not even worth it.
My Ist comment goes to sisi eko,like i've said and will continue to say, do u gurl and the rest is btwn u and ur God.
My second comment goes to wysiwg or whatever it is that she calls herself,(the meaning of ur names does not make a damn difference, u are still a real FOOL)
Let it be known that this will be the last time i would exchange comments with u, not only cos u are not worth my time, but also cos i see that u are in desperate need of attention and u intend on lengthening ur shine time by going back and forth with other commenters.
Look who's calling others noisemakes, Obviously u are the empty vessel that makes the loudest noise and if u had better things to do with ur time which of course i see u have plenty of, u will not be stalking someone else's blog.
Sisi eko, is an adult, well above the age of consent and i don't think she needs ur "advise". Its funny how u are so quick to give advise and never take to urs.. maybe if u did, u would spend more time on the internet doing constructive stuff rather than sleepin on someone else's blog.
But obviously ur own "constructive" time is spent badmouthing others and giving useless advise... and its sooo amazing how everyone else seems to be wrong and u are the only one that is sooo right. U're such a joker!!!
In the real world which u are oblivious to, we agree to disagree and not impose our opinions on others... but of course what would you know about that.
Maybe if u had a husband, a home and kids to look after,u would probably be more productive. But how could u... u're too busy minding other pple's business rather urs.
At 32 ur mates have better things to do, agbaya osi, alailojuti, adagba ma da nu.... who will marry u nyways, i laugh!!! u will be dating 4 a very long time at the rate which u are going!!!
All of a sudden, sisi eko is now, sisi babe, my dear and all the other nice names ur dumb self could come up with.. a couple of blogs ago, were abusive names of all sorts...now from outa the blue u like the way she is handling the scenrio! Bloody hypocrite that u are!
Like i said... u got issues gurl, go deal with em!!!
U have such an issue with sisi eko how about u visit
overwhelmednaijababe.blogspot.com/2007/01/my-sex.html and
http://mphahlele.blogspot.com/
two equally beautiful pple inside and out, i am sure you would have a stroke and i hope u don't recover from it.
I hope that someday triffling heifers like u would wake up and see the world in a totally different way... until then keep living in the darkness that u subject urself to.
I am done with u as i do not wish to waste my precious time on ignorant morons like you who claim to be so educated and well brought up yet lack the class and integrity that comes with being a real woman!!!!
Sisi eko eyan gidi, even if you don't ever hear from me cos i do not stalk ur blog all day long like some others, my thots are wit u gurl and i hope it all works out !!
And i like the way you have been giving her the silent treatment, she is sooo worth it.
Let her keep talking to herslef cos no one is listening!!
Much love!!
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